And for any man who has found himself unable to climax or even to get an erection, it can be deeply bruising to the ego. I have always had a healthy libido and no trouble achieving an erection. I love sex, and when I was younger I remember fearing that if I fully let go I might not be able to finish. This one anxious thought often kept me from reaching an absolute peak. Finishing was easy, and that sweet swell of sensation would fool me, so I would completely miss the moment when I needed to hold back ejaculation....