The Sexual Revolution for Women: The time has come to reclaim sovereignty over our vaginas!

Conquest and domination are a perfect way to keep a woman sexually disconnected and weakened, because unless she is COMPLETE (WHOLE) and unless she reclaims her sexual sovereignty, this revolution in consciousness will never find its true spark.

Ladies, make no mistake. There is a war out there, and it is a war waged against us as women.

The assault is organized and directed against our sexuality and our personal expression, and yes, ladies, it has begun and it still continues. It targets our reproductive rights.

Predominantly white establishment figures from the far right, deeply rooted in conservative Catholicism, present themselves as experts. They have seized control over our bodies. The time has come to take that power out of their hands.

"But I already own my vagina. What on earth are you talking about?" many of you may think.

Allow me to explain. Your vagina is physically part of your body. Yet it is not freely at your disposal to do what you wish, with whom you wish, and in the way you wish.

Here is why:

1. We live in a culture that condones hostility toward women who freely express their sexuality

"Slut" is the common word used to verbally and socially smear women who are comfortable with their sexuality and who move beyond prescribed social and moral boundaries.

The label "slut" is verbally and emotionally violent. It is directed exclusively at WOMEN.

This word signals social disapproval of women’s sexual behavior. It polices what a woman does with her vagina, with whom she does it, and how often she does it.

Public shaming reliably follows when a woman is attacked for her sexual expression. Think of the Kristen Stewart episode. The man involved is often ignored, and his "transgression" goes unmentioned or minimized. People excuse it as boys will be boys.

2. Everyone seeks social acceptance, and that includes women. We therefore avoid behaviors that our culture stigmatizes and has convinced us are "WRONG". We hold back out of fear that we will be ostracized or mocked.

This applies to many things, and most of all to sexual expression.

The result is anything but harmless. This subconscious fear keeps us on a short leash when it comes to exploring or even fully enjoying our sexuality. In a troubling twist, we allow men, and the society they dominate, to instruct us on which forms of sexual behavior are acceptable for "good girls and good women". They set the rules for what is right and what is not.

For example, she is branded a slut for her sexual behavior, even though HIS sexual organ was also involved in the very acts for which she is condemned. She is a SLUT for doing it, and an even bigger SLUT if she enjoyed it.

These wealthy and hypocritical men have been cutting down women’s sexual self expression for centuries. They disguise this control as beautiful social, moral, and Catholic values.

If we do not want the coming years on this earth to resemble a modern inquisition, it is time for us as women to learn what sexual empowerment truly means. We must do this not only for ourselves.

It is essential that we as women help one another in this work of sexual empowerment.

It achieves little if one woman in the room is a living embodiment of sexual empowerment while the rest still run on an outdated social and sexual program that shames her.

Even taking part in the shaming of a woman for her sexual self expression is VIOLENCE. If you are a woman who does this to another woman, be certain that you are participating in the old patriarchal garbage that culture aims at women.

Women can be very cruel to one another. AND IT MUST STOP NOW, THIS VERY MOMENT.

Conquest and domination are a perfect way to keep a woman sexually disconnected and weakened. Unless she is COMPLETE (WHOLE) and unless she reclaims her sexual sovereignty, this revolution in consciousness will never catch its true spark.

This healing can begin only within a community of women who support one another in reconnecting with sexual pleasure. In doing so, we all celebrate the unrestrained expression of our sensuality.

The question is what can we do?

1. EDUCATE OURSELVES

The sexual potential within every woman is immense. Truly. Did you know we can experience 11 different types of orgasm? How many have you allowed yourself to discover? Few of us can honestly say we have reached the full range of our orgasmic potential. Why does this matter so much? BECAUSE SEXUAL ENERGY IS LIFE FORCE. It opens our hearts, frees our minds, and heals our bodies. That is real POWER, and it is OUR power, our birthright. Let us stop acting like frightened schoolgirls and take it back from the hands of men.

2. MASTURBATE

Oh yes. Did I strike a nerve? Do you feel uncomfortable? Breathe, relax, and begin. Most importantly, do not limit yourself. Explore your body. Do not wait for the right man, the so called Prince Charming, to arrive and ALLOW you to feel pleasure. Pleasure is yours. Claim it and begin to enjoy it now, in this very moment.

3. DANCE SEDUCTIVELY/SEXY

Believe it or not, we carry many sexual inhibitions. They start with the simplest movements we make with our bodies, especially our pelvis. Open and free your body with five basic pelvic movements. This erotic dance will change your life because it asks you to feel every muscle.

You will discover the power that your vagina holds. It will open an entirely new world you did not know existed.

Our empowerment and our awakening as women are directly connected to how free and at ease we feel in our sexual expression.

If we are emotionally trapped in guilt, fear, or shame, we are deeply limited. The worst part is that we may die without ever realizing our full personal, emotional, or spiritual potential.

I appeal to every one of you to walk out of the psychological prisons of sexual repression and to claim the right you received at birth.

The revolution begins with the vagina. Become the sovereign of your own vagina.