Three ways to make your man say your Yoni is the best

All in all, I feel completely energized (activated, enlivened, absolutely happy) and I can say from experience that all these tantric practices of mine lead to very visible results. What I am proud to share is that every hour I invested paid off the moment he murmured… “You are phenomenal!”

There is no happier man than one whose partner does not fake her orgasms. He might have seen that only in adult films, and now he has it live and real, all thanks to his perfect penis. Or at least that is what he believes.

Let us put this into three simple steps, moving from “That was fine” to the moment his eyes light up with pleasure and he asks for more.

PRACTICE. A jade ball, a jade egg, or silicone balls. The choice matters less than making sure you USE them. Why? In that moment when he is deep in your Yoni, you look into those beautiful blue eyes (or brown, or green) and he says, “I love how snug you feel.” That is the magic. I speak from experience after two vaginal births.
HEAL. I know I may sound repetitive when I speak about sexual trauma causing real numbness and pain in certain parts of the body. On the other side of numbness and pain lies indescribable pleasure, and not only for you. When you heal your Yoni, she comes alive again. She fills with energy and becomes more sensitive. When your man enters you, you will feel him from head to toe. Most importantly, he will feel YOU — every inch, every curve, pulsing and embracing him while he is inside you.
PLAY. This refers to solo tantric practice. A natural result of healing is increased sensitivity and orgasms. ORGASMS. Not just one, but many, arriving one after another and seeming as if they will never stop. The more you awaken your own orgasmic body, the more able you will be to awaken your partner’s.

Beyond that, there is no happier man than one whose partner does not fake her orgasms. He might have seen that only in adult films, and now he has it live and real, and he believes it is all thanks to his perfect penis. Or at least that is what he thinks.

I should mention that this article sat in my drafts for a while because I was unsure when to publish it. I was advised to start “promoting” women’s practices under the banner of “how to please your man.” I did not love that idea. Make your man happy? Women should do these practices first and foremost for themselves, not simply so that HE is pleased.

I decided the only right approach is to speak woman to woman. Yes, the health benefits are wonderful. Yet what gets me out of bed to practice, or into bed to practice, are those beautiful eyes looking at me and that sweet mouth praising my Yoni. Yes, love, it is that good. Welcome to the world of Tantra.