I do not mind repeating myself, because I believe this needs to be said again and again, spoken out loud and emphasized until all of us become aware and choose to change the reality we live in.

We live in a culture that TEACHES women to be afraid, to turn away from their sexuality, and to suppress their sensuality.

It appears I have been called out for writing only outlines, never bringing a topic to a proper close.

So that you cannot say I DO NOT read your comments and DO NOT respond to them, I have decided to publish this post.

A word of warning at the outset… gentlemen, this one is not for you… it is intended for us women only.

People often ask me what my family thinks of my candid way of writing about sexuality, pleasure, and orgasm.

I understand the concern. I write on Facebook, and many of my posts explore climax, pleasure, orgasm, and related themes.

I want to live my life the way I make love, with fearless passion and a joy that needs no apology.

There is no excuse-making in my sexual life, unlike what sometimes happens in life. When I make love I do not falter, I regret nothing, and I feel no shame for my unspoiled pleasure.

If you had asked me a few years ago what 'sexual healing' meant, I would likely have stared blankly, frozen with embarrassment, and blushed. I would also have found a way to change the subject as quickly and as gently as possible. The topic of sex intrigued me, yet it confused me, and any conversation about it made me deeply uncomfortable.

When we set out on the path of personal growth and choose sound methods, you may find yourself face to face with your own demons. In that moment a choice is offered. You can cover them with a New Age bandage and tell yourself, 'Everything is fine, these feelings are only an illusion,' or you can reframe them into something meaningful.